A combination of the words Tomboy, and Flame. A tomboy who presents and/or aligns most with the stereotypes around gay dudes rather than a straight dudes. Tomflames are often nonbinary, but can also be women.
"If I have a masculine side, it's super gay. So yeah, I'd say I'm a tomflame for sure."
"I can't tell if they're a she/her gay guy, a regular transfemme, or a tomflame."
"If I didn't know better, I'd suspect she's a tomflame the way she treats her boyfriend."
"I can't tell if they're a she/her gay guy, a regular transfemme, or a tomflame."
"If I didn't know better, I'd suspect she's a tomflame the way she treats her boyfriend."
by FlamingoFountain January 05, 2025