setaters - refers to a warm hug. in most cases, setaters are given to those who are special to a person. only select people get setaters. setaters are usually given to best friends, family, and those whom the setatee adores with a passion. when one loves another, they are given a setater
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.