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Passive Top 

A passive top may prefer the bottom to be astride him and/ or in control of the pace of things. Importantly, the top isn't always in control of the action. The terms active/passive often have to do with how power and control are managed - on many levels - in a particular sexual interaction
A passive top likes to go with the flow and doesn’t need to be aggressive to have fun.
Passive Top by anonymous May 18, 2023
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Passive top 

A homosexual man that penetrates his partner, then just lies on top dead weight, until climax.
Dave was ok at first until I found out he was a passive top. He just lay there while I did the worm.

Passive-Top 

Passive Top
A sexual identity where a gay male who typically identifies and performs as a top will allow to be penile penetrated by a dominant top, or by pegging, or by sex toys (dildos). A passive top will also allow to be penetrated while simultaneously penile penetrating (a male, female). Passive tops can also be considered “verse” or versatile but the term is more fitting for a male who is always a top unless there is a total “dom” top involved.
A passive-top will always top except for when having sex with a dom-top
Passive-Top by BlueRocker22 December 25, 2021
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