Australian slang; like a wristy, but using chicken meat instead of someone else's hand. There are many variations on the spelling, including parmy, parmie, pahmie, pahmy. They are all pronounced the same in the Australian accent.
"Got myself a great palmy at the pub the other night!"
"Mate, my missus gave me the best palmy ever last weekend!"
A man who dates women with the sole purpose of exploiting their time, energy, and labor while he sucks the joy and happiness from their lives.
"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."