A vulgar Tatar insult that literally translates to "dickhead" or "glans penis". It is used to describe a stupid, annoying, or foolish person who acts like an idiot.
— Salam, my dear friend. How you doing?
— WDYM?! You literally blocked me yesterday in social media, and now acting as if nothing happened?! What a Kutakbash!
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.