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We hate love, we love hate 

The chant Marilyn Manson always gives to a crowd at an audience to recite, frequently before playing "Irresponsible Hate Anthem".
1. Marilyn Manson: And all the children say, "We hate love, we love hate, we hate. . ."
Audience: ". . .love, we love hate. . "
2. I haven't seen any performance of "Irresponsible Hate Anthem" by Marilyn Manson where he hasn't got the audience to chant the "we-hate-love, we-love-hate" thing.

Love/Hate relationship

A Love/Hate relationship is usually between two people who deep down love each other. Insted of actually expressing their feelings, they bicker. Sometimes they will atomaticly say, "I hate him/her" so no one leads on maybe they do love that person. Also they may say "I don't care" when really they do. Fights are cuased over jelousy, maybing hating the person because their with someone else, but really love the other person. Love/hate relationships are complicated, but in the end they're exciting and intoxating because there is a fine line between love and hate.
Ron and Hermione. They hate each other but end up becoming a couple in, because they have a love/hate relationship.

love/hate relationship

The dynamics of the love/hate relationship are based on both mutual admiration and irritation.

Usually such a relationship is formed unintentionally by people who are complete opposites being flung together, such as an introduction through a mutual friend.

Although unsuited to each other's presence, the lover/haters will usually find it hard to exclude the other from their life and day-to-day activities.

Similar to an abusive relationship, the lover/haters constantly crave more conflict while subconsciously seeking the other's approval.

Previously, those engaged in a love/hate relationship were commonly referred to as lover/haters, however the term "pevy" as now surpassed the phrase lover/haters.
I can't stand being in their presence. Talk about a love/hate relationship; those two are constantly bickering. They're such a pevy.

love/hate relationship

Seraph of The End
“what’s a love love/hate relationship?”
“have you ever seen Seraph of The End?”

love hate realtionship 

1. Love hate realtionship is a complicated relationship in which there are always two sides. The first side is the common attraction and love for one another. The second is the "hate" which is actually an attraction so strong that our human heart can sustain, it is based mostly in fear.
2. Love hate realationship can emerge from a partnership where both people have to work in the same space or office. There is an attraction but there is also no privacy in which each to be alone. So it becomes something like...I like you but I cant be with you all the time, so I hate you that way we can be in the same space without being together.
My parents started as a love hate realtionship.

love/hate 

This sort of relationship usually occurs when you have complicated relations of someone of the opposite sex. You'd want to kill them, but you'd be the first to mourn their death. You would like to castrate them, but then you couldn't bear their children.
Michael and Amaris. Beyond what anyone fully understood, they had a love/hate which went beyond the normal. From stealing phones, to blowing dolls, Michael truly make Amaris's life complicated. However, Amaris still put up with the sexy twin to fulfill her own sexual desires.
love/hate by LinDsay O'Talbert December 16, 2008
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pod person 

A person pretending to be something they aren't, or an impostor. This is inferred because of the old alien movies where alien pods appear on earth and the "pod people" dispose of the humans and slowly reproduce the bodies, pretending to be humans.
The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.
pod person by Christopher M. May 9, 2005
Word of the Day on November 10, 2026
A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.

Spies have been known to use dead drops, using various techniques to hide the items and to signal that the drop has been made. Drug dealers use this as well.

A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.

A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
"The dead drop is the restroom toilet at the Gulf station at the corner of Commercial Ave. and Georges Rd."
dead drop by rubberroom July 23, 2008
Word of the Day on November 9, 2026

No Surprises Wedding

A "No Surprises Wedding," or NSW, is a wedding invitation designation that tells attendees that there can be no unplanned announcements, engagements, events or speeches at the wedding - all actions must be pre-approved by the couple. Anyone who performs an unapproved "surprise" will be asked to leave the wedding early.

This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
You are cordially invited to the nuptials of Brian and Tom on October 31 at noon.

Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
Word of the Day on November 8, 2026
Ulzzang true definition is "best & "face" = best face in korean. They are basically people with above average looks, sometimes with the use of photoshop and haduri who post their pics online, some becoming internet celebrities.
"Hey, see that chick over there? She's pretty enough to be an ulzzang. :D"
ulzzang by `r i k kit t y February 26, 2008
Word of the Day on November 7, 2026
EBK stands for "Elite Ball Knowledge." 1 In internet slang, "ball knowledge" originally referred to a deep understanding of football/soccer or basketball, but it has evolved into a broader term for having a highly sophisticated, deep, or niche understanding of any specific topic (such as music, movies, or subcultures).
Person A: "That scene was a direct homage to an unreleased 1982 Japanese indie film."
Person B: "Wow, EBK."
EBK by silwhett November 5, 2026
Word of the Day on November 6, 2026
A seemingly endless debate with a idiot
I don't know man im not ready for yap trap stupidity today which always tries to suck you into it
Yap Trap by WolfieSnack November 4, 2026
Word of the Day on November 5, 2026
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