Gouda Queen Share definition Flag Is (lgbt) slang for a gay man (every ethicity) that prefers Dutch (farmer/country) men. "Oh my god, that guy is such a Gouda Queen. He only dates like those farmer boys". Gouda Queen by Levilikescookies October 30, 2014 0 0 Get merch Get the Gouda Queen mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch