The gay bestfriend is, most likely, not gay at all, but rather a victim of douchebag theory which has chosen to be friendzoned in hopes of becoming friends with benefits, most likely things will not work out for this guy.
Joe: So how are things between you and Michelle?
Nerd: She's still with Chad, but I'm her gay bestfriend now.
Joe: tough break...
Nerd: She's still with Chad, but I'm her gay bestfriend now.
Joe: tough break...
by Cosban June 28, 2011
A gay bestfriend is someone who usually is not gay, but gets friendzoned by females he was/is interested in. In the other case of them actually being homosexual, then they are there to give compliments to the females that have befriended them.
Travis: Yo man Jaice is definitely the gay bestfriend.
Jesus: Bib
Jaice(gay bestfriend): GUYS SHUT UP I AM NOT THE GAY BESTFRIEND!
Jesus: Bib
Jaice(gay bestfriend): GUYS SHUT UP I AM NOT THE GAY BESTFRIEND!
by TacoHurdles February 16, 2019
It’s like a girl’s gay best friend except he’s actually straight and the girl knows this but they have no interest in dating each other
by Jra02 July 09, 2019
A guy that is actually straight but gets friendzoned by all of his female friends and is treated as their gay bestfriend. The girl treats him as if he's their gay bestfriend despite the fact that he may want to actually have feelings or atraction towards her.
Joseph: Yo, how you gonna be hugging and cuddle up with all those girls but never do shit further with them.
Kyle: Dude, none of them like me in that way and it really pisses me off lowkey.
Joseph: Bruh, you know how girls always want to have that one gay bestfriend?
Kyle: Yeah
Joseph: Well, that's basically what you are.
Kyle: But I'm not gay tho so if anything I would be the "Psuedo-Gay Bestfriend"
Joseph: Yeah pretty much laughing.
Kyle: Dude, none of them like me in that way and it really pisses me off lowkey.
Joseph: Bruh, you know how girls always want to have that one gay bestfriend?
Kyle: Yeah
Joseph: Well, that's basically what you are.
Kyle: But I'm not gay tho so if anything I would be the "Psuedo-Gay Bestfriend"
Joseph: Yeah pretty much laughing.
by zeldalover1113 October 31, 2017