Kim gave the bar tender a nasty attitude when asking for a drink so he stirred her drink with his dick while saying your dirty boyscout is on the house.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.