A girl who is smart and well educated. She handles her business like a women/girl should and does not ask for handouts . She is a boss and doesn't let anyone define who or what she is
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.