Big Gay Bear Share definition Flag A homosexual man who is hairy. He looks "butch" but when he talks, purses fly out of his mouth. Oh Mary! Look at that Big Gay Bear that just walked in the door. Nice pooper cushion on that hunk! Big Gay Bear by woofmary January 29, 2005 0 0 Get merch Get the Big Gay Bear mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch