confidence without cockiness. it is never misplaced and it cannot be simulated. it is the sexual equivalent of writing a check for $10k knowing you got it in the bank account.
pete davidson is 6’3 with dark circles, exudes big dick energy , looks evil but apparently is an angel, and loves his girl publicly.
by neptuneestate June 27, 2018
Confidence, an aura if you will, that implies an above average-sized penis.
I had never met anyone with true big dick energy until I met Tom.
by okayalrightokaygeez February 20, 2019
Big Dick Energy, or BDE, is that confidence you got knowing you got an enormous penis, but BDE isn't exclusive to the well-endowed. Anyone can have big dick energy if he (or she!) exudes the BDE aura.

The phrase originates from the since-deleted tweet by singer Ariana Grande, mentioning that her fiancé Pete Davidson has a 10-inch long penis.
Pete Davidson got that big dick energy.
by bumbleben0 June 27, 2018
big dick energy for life
I have big dick energy
by z32Dark April 28, 2020
Big Dick Energy is the energy exuded by someone who knows exactly what they have to offer, and doesn't need to prove a thing to anybody about it. A person with a big dick does not feel the need to tell people about it, nor do they display any need to overcompensate. People who shout their own praises certainly do not have big dick energy.

Coined by one of Ariana Grande's followers, in response to a comment where Grande alluded that her then-fiancé Pete Davidson had a 10-inch dick. This came soon after their engagement, when many were confused by Grande's interest in an everyday-dude like Davidson. The term big dick energy was a perfect explanation for this unexpected pairing, and it took the Internet by storm.

Big dick energy has come into use by many feminists who are looking for the same type of acceptance that cocky male fuck-boy types receive. Some girls just want to get dick and get paid, and why shouldn't this be okay? Although this is true and we support the elimination of the double standards displayed in gender inequality, this is not the proper usage of the term big dick energy.

Although there are some people who consider big dick energy to be associated with loud, boisterous, testosterone-fueled energy, some may consider this to be actually little dick energy, or a napoleon complex--- an intense need to overcompensate for the self-doubt that they feel internally. This is not to say that everyone who is loud and confident is overcompensating.
Friend 1: "That chick at the bar last night who was twerking and screaming at guys, telling them that she knew she was beautiful, and that she didn't need them to tell her, had some serious big dick energy."

Friend 2: "You think so? I thought that outgoing, confident dude in the corner, who was cracking jokes with a huge smile on his face all night, had some serious big dick energy. A lá Pete Davidson."

Friend 1: "To each their own."
by queeralex February 2, 2019
Cate Blanchett’s character in Ocean’s 8. Or, Cate Blanchett anytime she wears a suit. (Which is a lot)
Person 1: Wow, Lou Miller in Ocean’s 8 has such big dick energy.

Person 2: I know, I wish I could wear expensive suits and ride motorbikes like that
by Iliveinarainbow July 10, 2018
jovan: dAmN I wish I had big dick energy like Kyle
by JumboJuice69420 October 6, 2019