Typically a male, "Ben" is most often around 5'8-6'1 and has a really small cock. "Ben" will usually attempt to hide his flaw by claiming how large is and how it gets all the bitches. In reality, however, it is extremely tiny. Most often "Ben" is homosexual and or a small twig-like creature.
A man child who is terrible at giving oral despite what others think. He most definitely will not get laid until last year of college, and only because he ordered a prostitute. His wife (if he gets one) will cheat on him because of his inability to meet her sexual needs because of his small penis. This wife will most likely be his cousin or someone he paid with drugs, who will later leave him. A Ben will also generally have a big nose that is larger than his penis.
Lisa: I met a Ben the other day, he seemed nice but kinda lonely.
Carol: I divorced a Ben once, he had a nose bigger than his dick.
Lisa: Maybe I'll turn down that date...