notherfucker

-Anybody but me.

Woman asking friend to go to haunted basement to retrieve Christmas gifts. Friend goes, only to be manhandled by a ghost. Upon frantic return woman asks friend to go back.

Friend: “I ain’t getting shit, you gots to get a notherfucker to go back down there.”

by MrsWilson11 September 15, 2020

NotXemo

a really cool guy on discord ngl hes so hot and hunky

dark: hey do u remember xemo?

inv7y: oh yeah that super cool one?

Chase Witherspoon: yeah NotXemo is awesome

by YouTubeXemo August 19, 2021

Nothim

dumb skyblock irl trader

Nothim you are a dumbass

by oqh a August 7, 2022

Nother

A mother, only its a non-binary mother, making a nother!

my nother is kind to me and helps me :)

by Haze Hates Hoes December 20, 2022

NotHimphobia

When you think your that guy but are unable to be a man and leave your partners shadow

Alex has been suffering from NotHimphobia and cannot let go of Tysons pocket.

by pavelyakky April 11, 2023

NoChem

No Chemistry homework day

person 1: fuck, I didn't do my chem work
person 2: don't worry, its nochem day

by heheman3141 June 1, 2024

Notherapy Effect

The term for the phenomenon where therapy—particularly mental and psychological interventions—has more negative than positive effects on an individual. The Notherapy Effect can result from various factors: mismatched therapist and client, inappropriate modalities, forced or coerced therapy, therapy that pathologizes normal responses to abnormal situations, or simply the wrong approach for the individual. Instead of healing, the experience causes harm: retraumatization, increased distress, eroded trust, deepened shame. The Notherapy Effect is rarely discussed in a culture that treats therapy as universally beneficial, but it's real, and its victims are left not only unhelped but harmed—and often blamed for their own failure to improve.

Example: "She'd been coerced into therapy after speaking out about workplace abuse. The therapist focused not on the abuse but on her 'reaction' to it, suggesting her anger was the problem, not the injustice. Months of this left her doubting herself, blaming herself, more broken than before. The Notherapy Effect had done its work: therapy had harmed more than helped, and she was left to pick up the pieces alone."

by Abzugal February 19, 2026