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vanilla dom

(n.) - A vanilla dom, sometimes referred to as a “vanilla top” or “vanilla dom top,” is a dominant subtype in the BDSM lexicon. It’s usually associated withIn the gay male community, but not exclusively. Vanilla doms are generally characterized by sexual arousal and identity related to dominant behavior, sexual top position and traditional sexual roles within the gender binary. What makes them unique to the broader LGBT/BDSM community is their openness to monogamy and trend to a more heteronormative approach to relationships and life. They’re generally attracted submissive, smooth, younger partners. While it’s not absolute, generally they avoid classic (clamps, paddles, chains) BDSM gear, multiple partners, circuit parties, PNP, etc. Often they are high earners and avoid drugs and alcohol and value fitness, health and industriousness.
Look at that fit daddy. He must be a vanilla dom.
by woolfgunphotobooth August 27, 2020
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Vani

Noun

A beautiful goddess with the voice of angels.

When you meet a "VANI" be very grateful as she is usually a very caring and loving person she will stick with you through thick and thin.
Random: hi vani i am having really bad problems at home
Vani: its alright im here just talk to me

Vani singing:

' Oh Happy Days...'
by haeyhaey123 September 8, 2009
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Vanilla Push Pop

The uncircumsized penis of a caucasion male. When the foreskin is pulled back, the action resembles that of the well known Push Pop Candy.
Doug picked up a chick at the bar and took her to his car to get a blow job. She engulfed his Vanilla Push Pop until he blew his load.
by Eaton Holgoode June 23, 2009
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Vadikün

To accomplish something of epic proportions in a unbelievable manner.
Sergio: Yo boys, last night I rode a narwal to the club, and got with a blacksmith in a hot air balloon.

Dramire: Such a classic vadikün.
by Dijon321 January 4, 2011
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vanilla with sprinkles

A vanilla with sprinkles person is someone who isn't exactly kinky or vanilla meaning they either vary or are somewhere in between.
"Im more of a vanilla with sprinkles, im into threesomes but i draw the line at blindfolds"
by actually batman October 22, 2017
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vanilla domme

A vanilla domme is a new Twitter phenomenon of people looking to cash in on newbie BDSM enthusiasts without having a clue.

It means 'I don't understand domination or fetish play but want to be praised and given money anyway'
Sally bought a cheap catsuit on Ebay and is now setting up her vanilla domme onlyfans site.
by curiousx10 March 18, 2021
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vanilla coke

The only known liquid-state form of crack cocaine.
I need my fix so I'm gonna go buy a 12-pack of Vanilla Coke.
by Kharivas August 26, 2004
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