A male or female that uses modern technology to send abusive/controversial/callus messages to another person. Mediums such as social networks or mobile phones are generally used. These messages usually have an intended purpose.
Don: You my friend are not nice. Do not annoy me again you little slut. I think your actions are disgraceful.
Mary: Don you are an Abusive messager.
Mary: Don you are an Abusive messager.
by madnut August 2, 2011
Get the Abusive messagermug. by Sprig of basil November 9, 2022
Get the Abusemug. now* ”yo ara.” *ten minutes later* “yo ara.” *two minutes later* “yo ara.” DAYUM NIGGA YOU ABUSING THE FUCK OUTTA MY NAME.
by iiheart.ama March 31, 2022
Get the Abusingmug. 
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by SuelTameOresuTeMato April 25, 2025
Get the The Country Of Japan Only Sells Raspberry Flavored Cocaine For Dictions Of Interest With No Volition Of Abusemug. by eek epic May 21, 2020
Get the fattie abusemug. "People are conflating simple disagreement with gaslighting but when I talk about Palestine I receive a steady stream of abuse!" Seerut Chawla
Hym "They're weaponizing this language and you're receiving a steady stream of abuse? I don't see how that's it any different than MY THING! That sounds like MY THING! Really!? Well, I can relate Seerut Chawla. I'm usually hesitant to say people's names but... you asked for it, I guess. Hopefully you don't get nailed with some for of sexual impropriety scandal like the last 4 out of 8 people I've named... I don't know how any of that works but, yeah... ME TOO! I can totally relate to that! I hate comparative suffering rhetoric though. I'm not entirely unsympathetic to their claims of trauma. It isn't as bad (comparatively) as violence but I'm not going to presuppose (entirely) that their grievances are illegitimate. Life is pretty reality-monstery and it can be difficult to cope. People are largely uncooperative solipsists and once they've 'activated a mode' in your direction, it can be difficult to get them to treat you the way you want to be treated. But that's only because they're bad and dumb. And that's all it is, by the way. Them activating a certain mode of operation at you. Not that I don't do it.
Hym "They're weaponizing this language and you're receiving a steady stream of abuse? I don't see how that's it any different than MY THING! That sounds like MY THING! Really!? Well, I can relate Seerut Chawla. I'm usually hesitant to say people's names but... you asked for it, I guess. Hopefully you don't get nailed with some for of sexual impropriety scandal like the last 4 out of 8 people I've named... I don't know how any of that works but, yeah... ME TOO! I can totally relate to that! I hate comparative suffering rhetoric though. I'm not entirely unsympathetic to their claims of trauma. It isn't as bad (comparatively) as violence but I'm not going to presuppose (entirely) that their grievances are illegitimate. Life is pretty reality-monstery and it can be difficult to cope. People are largely uncooperative solipsists and once they've 'activated a mode' in your direction, it can be difficult to get them to treat you the way you want to be treated. But that's only because they're bad and dumb. And that's all it is, by the way. Them activating a certain mode of operation at you. Not that I don't do it.
I mean, yeah, if you're going to go into comparative suffering rhetoric it's going to activate my 'antagonism toward THAT' mode and then I'm going to be antagonistic towards you... For a minute. And then I'll revert to default settings and probably feel guilty about it and then I'm going to be like 'Oh no am I disparaging a fan or something or maybe I'm misinterpreting what's going on here' and then I'll feel bad for a bit... But that's the situation I'm in. I've activated people's 'antagonism towards ME' mode (which is what you did with the Palestine thing). I've been trying to figure out how to turn that off but their mechanisms of thought are a fucking hatchet job and their minds are INFERIOR TO MINE IN EVERY WAY! THE GREATEST MIND WHO HAS EVER LIVED! BETTER THAN EVERYONE!!! 😮 💨😮 💨😮 💨 But to no avail... So, if you're a fan, that'd cool. I love my fans but I hate having fans damn you all for making me be a celebrity I hate those and being one and knowing people and being known. And if you hate my guts then, you know, fuck you. You suck and I'm better than you in every way. I hate the weird gross hivemind you essentially are and you're something with would be killed with fire in a horror movie and abuse is only good when it happens to you specifically."
by Hym Iam December 31, 2023
Get the Abusemug.