by ninirosa May 4, 2018

This is a sex act where the male participant is at his climax, but just before he cums he fists the female participant but he puts his whole hand in the vaginal cavity and grips the inner lining of the vagina, and tugs at it and then releasing . This makes the female feel intense euphoria until the pain kicks in.
"Todd gave me the transgender fender bender II last night and can't feel my finger nails right now."
by INEEDTODIE August 22, 2023

A term for gay sex
If you are the fender, you are the fender you are the one getting in one taking it in the rear.
If you are the bender, you are the one "clapping cheeks"
Person: did you hear that they are gay?
You: yea, they are totally fender benders..
If you are the fender, you are the fender you are the one getting in one taking it in the rear.
If you are the bender, you are the one "clapping cheeks"
Person: did you hear that they are gay?
You: yea, they are totally fender benders..
by Biggppp May 29, 2021

When a group of men with big dicks and can steal anyone’s girl decide to fucking fall in the floor like fucking goats screaming the fenderrrrr benderrrrr dudddddeeee
by The fender bender dude January 22, 2020
