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Pick-me

People who use forms of manipulation to date others. Stereotypically, pick-me girls will try to put down other women, and act like they are one of the boys, while pick-me boys use self-deprication, and will praise women so they feel bad and date them.
A: I heard you went on a date with B last night, how was it.
C: Well, he seems nice, but he's such a pick-me boy.
by idkdudeimtired June 28, 2023
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Pick me dad

The sports dads that are always inserting themselves as if they’re a coach but not a coach
Look at Steve over there in the huddle with the team, what a pick me dad
by BlueChameleon June 11, 2024
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Pick Me

Someone who attacks their own community in pursuit of validation from another community.
“Sarah is such a pick me.”
“How?”
“She said ‘women belong in the kitchen’ so her crush would like her!”
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pick me girl

someone is who is always trying to be "like the boys" pick me girls try to be "not like the other girls" for eg. they'll try and wear less make up and make fun of other girls for wearing make up and hang out with "the boys" they'll try play more video games and just be very annoying.
"jennies such a pick me" or "I hate pick me girls"
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Pick-me girl

You know that book Paul Ryan loves. It was written by that pick-me girl Ayn Rand
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Pick-me girl

You know that book Paul Ryan loves. It was written by that pick-me girl Ayn Rand
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Pick me

Usage:
Shaming:
Any loving a man female being shamed by the seething flock of arrogant/snobbish control freak women - she doesn't place above him. (her commitment to the daily choice to love = loyally serving/submitting/tolerating/etc being useful to him - to add to his life, not harm it; not having others on the same level or above him in any way)
Anyone on any level sub to man or not hating men - supportive and pleasing to be with, instead of: impudent, greedy, demanding, egotistical, hedonistic, hubristic, transactional, harmful.. - overall repulsive, expecting simping/slaving for them.
Pecking at her like chickens; because - themselves don't really love men if not despise, but want to manipulatively impose control upon them (it's all the projections they say about men, but in reverse, being a twisted, incapable of empathy, parody on masculine herself), placing their flock of women above the man.
From either leftover women or insecure women with (naturally too empathetically biased for fem) men they've 'trained' to be an expendable utility. Destructive to any other relationship, that doesn't give them attention or follow imposed template - normalizing hers, they'd probably call you that.
Popularized on tiktok - a mental institution catalog / personal diary of deranged women.

Hypocrisy call-out:
Virtue signaling female, that fakes to love a man for attention or other gain - similar to thot/tradthot. Like looking for soft life pseudo-trad bimbo-for-hire gold diggers.
- You're such a sycophant pick me girl.
- At least I don't hate men.
by veinsofgold April 27, 2025
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