A feminine gay guy who plays the more dominant role in the relationship. Definitely the “pitcher” but looks like the “catcher”
by ShearLove November 6, 2018
Get the fem topmug. An out of control female motor vehicle operator whose automobile resembles a 1.5 ton unguided missile.
by Uncle T-bag 0317 May 30, 2011
Get the Fem-isslemug. In the LGBTQ+ community, specifically gay men, the term "no fats no fems" refers to only being interested in connecting with other men that are "in shape and masculine". "No fats" means nobody overweight and "no fems" means nobody that has a feminine sounding voice, feminine behaviors or characteristics. This is a discriminatory phrase that is commonly used on dating apps, such as Grindr, when trying to romantically connect with other gay men.
by isa14x August 28, 2020
Get the no fats no femsmug. by dakine666 November 28, 2012
Get the fem-woodmug. by Alie Vest April 20, 2004
Get the fem boymug. tony- what the hell is that smell??
milenkovitch- i think it is that lady that just walked by.....
tony- holey shit those are some nasty FEM-TRAILS!!!!
milenkovitch- yes and just like chem-trails they are destroying my mind and make me want to sex sex sex!!!
milenkovitch- i think it is that lady that just walked by.....
tony- holey shit those are some nasty FEM-TRAILS!!!!
milenkovitch- yes and just like chem-trails they are destroying my mind and make me want to sex sex sex!!!
by milenkovitch October 19, 2009
Get the fem-trailsmug. by Locutusjay December 21, 2022
Get the hood femmug.