Derogative term, used to describe an individual (often a male) who is indecisive, unwelcome, or in any way socially awkward; comparable to calling someone a "wanker."
What, you STILL don't know what if you want pepperoni or cheese pizza? Bruh, like...don't be such a hand-bender.
Is that Eric? God, what a hand-bender; let's bounce, yo.
Is that Eric? God, what a hand-bender; let's bounce, yo.
by Iguana-Hunter Beastmaster November 23, 2015
Get the hand-bendermug. 
One of the suspected causes of the ghost shit / ghost poo in which after a shit has been ejaculated out of the human body it either shoots out so fast or holds not enough mass to float and makes it's way down the toilet's S-Bend pipes never to be seen again.
by Soke No-Last-Name May 13, 2011
Get the S-Bendermug. by F550 Powerstroke March 6, 2014
Get the bender the robotmug. Susan: You said you saw Harry's dick last night.
Jane: Yea it was a real slender-bender, it barely fit in
Jane: Yea it was a real slender-bender, it barely fit in
by Displacedse October 26, 2016
Get the Slender-Bendermug. by Mad Hedon December 24, 2009
Get the friender bendermug. the embarrassing situation that arises from someone's innocently attributing the wrong gender to another person
I nearly got in a gender bender, but when I spotted the adam's apple I decided to stick to gender-neutral pronouns
by shamanticist May 1, 2015
Get the gender bendermug.