a person, specifically a woman, who will do anything extra to receive the attention and validation from men.
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speaking from experience (being friends with a pick-me), there are many people today who will do anything for the attention and validation from men.
there are men who will find humor off of r@pe/SA, misogyny, homophobia, racism, and more. a person who craves the attention from men will adapt to that type of humor to please problematic men. a person who craves attention from men will throw their own friends under the bus (specifically non-men) to praise other men; to put them first before anything.
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speaking from experience (being friends with a pick-me), there are many people today who will do anything for the attention and validation from men.
there are men who will find humor off of r@pe/SA, misogyny, homophobia, racism, and more. a person who craves the attention from men will adapt to that type of humor to please problematic men. a person who craves attention from men will throw their own friends under the bus (specifically non-men) to praise other men; to put them first before anything.
i really dislike sara, she is a pick me. i remember one time she purposely made fun of me in front of a huge group of boys just to see them all laugh... i never felt so embarrassed yet so betrayed in my entire life.
by gissguu March 19, 2022

An actor who gets in a play with a lot of assistance from actor friends and then ditches said actor friends in the play THEY ALL AUDITIONED FOR, then proceeds to suck up to other, 'superior' actors, director, stage manager, etc.. Typically acts different around friends than around superiors, much like the pick me girl.
by Cephalopedia December 1, 2023

Person 1 "Have u seen Wednesday boy?"
Person 2 "Oh yeah, he such a pick me that he doesn't even know what pick me means!"
Person 2 "Oh yeah, he such a pick me that he doesn't even know what pick me means!"
by Gingergreggs February 27, 2023

Is the definition of private school girl, wears black and white jordons, works at Boccaccio. Has a bf that is gay. Thinks she knows it all when she doesn’t and fucking loaded.
by anonymous August 27, 2021

Kaylaheyyy
A manipulative, repulsive pick me who had dated her whole guy friend group as in results of her in a bad situation.
by 330hey January 26, 2022
