Conan Gray made a song called "Heather." The song is about how someone wishes they were "Heather" because their crush likes Heather. Basically, "Heather" is a girl who is perfect in other people's eyes. She is the girl everyone is jealous of.

I like him so much but he doesnt like me back. I wish I were Heather.

Heather by lilly9045 August 14, 2020

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Heather

Heather is someone you want to be like or look like, someone you find really pretty. Heather is someone you look up to or to look like

I wish I was heather

Heather by Jordan tamai August 15, 2020

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Heather

In reference to Conan Gray’s song titled Heather.

The term was popularized by it’s use on the app TikTok, where people often use Conan’s song to describe wishing they were “Heather” (1).

Alternatively, people also use the song and term to showcase the “Heathers” in their lives (2).

1. “Heather” is a person who someone loses their crush to/ who they are chosen second to.

2. “Heather” is also, at the same time, a beautiful person inside and out. So you can’t even really hate “Heather”, despite just losing your love interest to them.

*note: “Heather” is often used in a gender-neutral way. Boys can also be described as “Heathers”, despite it sounding traditionally feminine*

1. He picked a Heather over me.

2. Who do you think our school’s “Heather” is?

Heather by -wish_i_were_heather- August 15, 2020

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