1. A person that will go through extraordinary links to be noticed.
2. A woman that will disrespect, degrade or belittle other women for the approval of men
3. A woman that insists on other women holding each other accountable
2. A woman that will disrespect, degrade or belittle other women for the approval of men
3. A woman that insists on other women holding each other accountable
“We as women need to hold each accountable accountable for behaviors that are detrimental to the black community”
(This woman would be called a “Pick me”)
(This woman would be called a “Pick me”)
by The Average Black Man Show May 20, 2022
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Friend: Ugh you’re such a pick me girl.
Friend: Ugh you’re such a pick me girl.
by unidentifiedskittle November 30, 2022
Get the Pick me girl mug.When a girl does something for male validation. It can be bringing down others (girls in this situation), changing the way they act only when around boys (or changing their whole self just to please boys) and agreeing on sexist things they say towards women.
... said she belongs to the kitchen, she's such a Pick Me.
... said I wear wayy too much makeup and that's why boys don't like me. She's such a Pick Me!
... said I wear wayy too much makeup and that's why boys don't like me. She's such a Pick Me!
by anonymous March 29, 2021
Get the Pick Me mug.A person in which brings down their own community/group, for the other party's approval/attention. They are attention-seekers, generally annoying, and absolutely self-centered. They always try to make themselves stand out and always think that they're not like the other people in their own community/group. They can also be very manipulative by being self-deprecating for the attention of the other party, basically guilt-tripping for attention/approval.
Sarah : "Hi! We're partners, right? So, like, what's your name- Oh, my gosh! I'm so awkward with girls. I'm so sorry, I'm like one of the boys because I don't interact with girls".
Sarah : "Like, I'm really sorry because girls are so petty, so that's why I'm one of the boys, y'know less drama and stuff".
Sarah : "I'm pretty sure you're like, interested into corny stuff like Harry Styles, K-pop, and Makeup. I'm not like other girls because I'm into sports like basketball, boxing, y'know?"
Sarah : "Johnnn, stop!! I will literally fight you".
Emily : "Can't she just shut the fuck up? Literally a Pick Me".
Sarah : "Like, I'm really sorry because girls are so petty, so that's why I'm one of the boys, y'know less drama and stuff".
Sarah : "I'm pretty sure you're like, interested into corny stuff like Harry Styles, K-pop, and Makeup. I'm not like other girls because I'm into sports like basketball, boxing, y'know?"
Sarah : "Johnnn, stop!! I will literally fight you".
Emily : "Can't she just shut the fuck up? Literally a Pick Me".
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Get the Pick me girl mug.The term "pick-me" generally refers to a person, typically a woman, who attempts to gain validation from men by appearing to be different from or less threatening to other women, often at the expense of those same women. This validation is often sought through acts or statements that imply they are "not like other girls" and align themselves with male interests or perspectives. The term is often used in a derogatory way, implying that the person is being disingenuous and seeking attention by appearing to be "one of the boys" or superior to other women.
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