A gender non-conforming bisexual woman. Kind of like a butch lesbian, but bisexual. May have short hair, wear men's or men's-style clothes, be unshaven, or any or none of the above.
Girl 1: Hey, check out that cute girl over there in the basketball shorts. Is she gay?
Girl 2: No, she swings both ways. She's a total tom-bi.
Girl 2: No, she swings both ways. She's a total tom-bi.
by TheTomcat May 07, 2016
by the_ethical_slut April 11, 2015
the disposition of one who feels bad about turning down advances from members of the same sex who have gotten the wrong idea, and so ends up leading them on further.
Person 1: Wow, John has been talking to that guy for a long time. I didn't know he's gay.
Person 2: Na, this happens a lot. He's not gay, just bi-courteous.
Person 2: Na, this happens a lot. He's not gay, just bi-courteous.
by verbalhygiene May 09, 2014
by randymachomansavage11 November 16, 2011
A male or female that sexually pursues bisexual men and/or women. To either engage in or view sexual acts.
by #1 Bi-chaser May 01, 2012
Someone, usually male will accept oral pleasure from another male, but will not reciprocate, or penetrate.
"He likes getting blowjobs from men, but will not give a man a blowjob. He is bi tolerant, He will not fuck his ass either"
by Kingof9x December 15, 2017
A person with mood swings
by Mynze September 14, 2018