foid (noun)
Originally a shortening of the misogynistic slur “femoid,” foid in current
popular usage refers not to women in general but to a specific archetype of Western woman who is highly socially integrated, hyper-conformist, hyper-materialistic, and
delusional. It is sometimes described as the
female counterpart to “
incel,” though the term carries markedly different connotations when applied to women.
The word denotes the type of woman who chooses single motherhood, pays premium rent for a modest studio apartment, and supports decriminalizing certain crimes on the grounds that the system itself is the true offender. She adopts every
new TikTok trend instantly and uncritically; her personality is assembled from layered social-media aesthetics, therapy-speak, and “healing
era” rhetoric. Her chief life goals revolve around living on a yacht or spending afternoons drinking. She does not date men but instead “curates experiences” with them, while reserving exceptions for those who possess substantial money or status (or a yacht) despite her professed “I hate all men” worldview.
I matched with this foid on Hinge. Her bio said 'single mom by choice, 4B,
ACAB, manifesting my yacht
era.' She unmatched me the second I said hello with her response being "It's giving
desperate"