And not without paying.
Hym "No, you can't. And not without paying. You need to do what I'm telling you or I need to do what I said I would do and there is no in-between there."
by Hym Iam September 9, 2025

This phrase is used when indicating that both parties are to blame and that it is unfair to blame only one side without the other.
Sidney - He is a terrible person, she should leave him.
Maria - You can't blame one without blaming the other, she's not been the perfect wife.
Maria - You can't blame one without blaming the other, she's not been the perfect wife.
by NutCracker288 September 16, 2020

Kale is slang for money, it's not just cabbage, which is also slang for money, so you can't have your money and spend it too. It's my updated version of the idiom, " you can't have your cake and eat it too".
by 2B+ November 27, 2019

Hym "That's like your catchphrase though, isn't? 'Lie until you can't lie anymore' Right? I'll get you though... I wil get... Your lil ass... Mm... Yep... Yepyepyep...."
by Hym Iam July 5, 2024

Phrase said commonly to explain the irreversability of one's actions, especially ones that damage onesself
- "I fucked up by telling my teacher shes stupid"
- "Yeah man, thats your fault, you can't unpee your pants"
- "Yeah man, thats your fault, you can't unpee your pants"
by idiommaster October 16, 2023
