If your real family isn't present, a tribe is kind of like family. If you've had family present for everything great you've done, everything great that happened to you in life, then they'
re not there, it'
s an adjustment, it's new territory. You'
re the same person with a part of you that was there
gone, a piece of the puzzle missing. Not everything is about putting together a puzzle, everything happens for a reason. Sometimes
two trains start going different directions and it's hard to tell which direction you'
re going, it's not a negative feeling.