A girl or boy (usually a girl) who acts like she doesn't need help, but then makes a "mistake" because she or he wants attention. A pick-me is also very dramatic.
Pick-me: "Hi!"
Person 1: "Hello! Oh can I help you carry those?"
Pick-me: "I'm ok thank you! *falls on purpose*"
Person 1: "OMG! Are you ok?"
Pick-me: "yes.... ow!"
Person 1: "What?!"
Pick-me: "My leg hurts.... i need to go to to the ER!!!"
Person 2: "Bro shes such a pick me"
Person 1: "Hello! Oh can I help you carry those?"
Pick-me: "I'm ok thank you! *falls on purpose*"
Person 1: "OMG! Are you ok?"
Pick-me: "yes.... ow!"
Person 1: "What?!"
Pick-me: "My leg hurts.... i need to go to to the ER!!!"
Person 2: "Bro shes such a pick me"
by i.like.cats December 11, 2023
Get the Pick-memug. by Truth only, PERIODD! April 23, 2022
Get the Pick me girlmug. by DOGHOTBUNCROSS March 18, 2023
Get the DUNNO YOU PICKmug. Pick Me Boyfriend
A pick me boyfriend is one who only does an action only if they agree with it. If they don’t agree with an action, they will act confused and refuse. They will further victimize themselves by saying it’s the girlfriends fault for asking. They may further blame the girlfriend for voicing what she wants if she responds with anger or ignores in retaliation to boyfriends refusal. On the frequent occasion, as argument is in transit, boyfriend may say the girlfriend isn't a good communicator.
A pick me boyfriend requires numerous reminders 1-20+ times before considering an action. He will say you nag too much for his inability to do something the first time it’s said. We have wonderful men in government and business which require swift action, but he will require 1-20+ reminders to say you’re nagging. He will make you praise him for finally building up the motivation to do said reminder.
Ex. Girlfriend asks boyfriend to help with the dishes. Boyfriend refuses and says it that isn’t his job and it’s his girlfriends job. Boyfriend values his time over his girlfriend’s and he sees the girlfriend’s time is better used to do the dishes.
Ex. Girlfriend reminds boyfriend 1-3 times a day to pick up his clothes off the floor. Boyfriend continues to throw dirty clothes on the floor for “whomever” to pick it up or “whenever he feels like it.” Habit may on the rare occasion be resolved in 1 hr to 100yrs. Duration of cure varies per human man.
A pick me boyfriend is one who only does an action only if they agree with it. If they don’t agree with an action, they will act confused and refuse. They will further victimize themselves by saying it’s the girlfriends fault for asking. They may further blame the girlfriend for voicing what she wants if she responds with anger or ignores in retaliation to boyfriends refusal. On the frequent occasion, as argument is in transit, boyfriend may say the girlfriend isn't a good communicator.
A pick me boyfriend requires numerous reminders 1-20+ times before considering an action. He will say you nag too much for his inability to do something the first time it’s said. We have wonderful men in government and business which require swift action, but he will require 1-20+ reminders to say you’re nagging. He will make you praise him for finally building up the motivation to do said reminder.
Ex. Girlfriend asks boyfriend to help with the dishes. Boyfriend refuses and says it that isn’t his job and it’s his girlfriends job. Boyfriend values his time over his girlfriend’s and he sees the girlfriend’s time is better used to do the dishes.
Ex. Girlfriend reminds boyfriend 1-3 times a day to pick up his clothes off the floor. Boyfriend continues to throw dirty clothes on the floor for “whomever” to pick it up or “whenever he feels like it.” Habit may on the rare occasion be resolved in 1 hr to 100yrs. Duration of cure varies per human man.
Friend: Did John really have they audacity to blame you for not being able to communicate directly with him about what will make you happy? What a pick me bf!
You: I only have asked him everyday, to pick up the clothes, take out his trash, clean his piss around the toilet, wash his dishes...and he says he doesn’t know what I want. It must be because he’ll only hear me if he agrees with what I want.
You: I only have asked him everyday, to pick up the clothes, take out his trash, clean his piss around the toilet, wash his dishes...and he says he doesn’t know what I want. It must be because he’ll only hear me if he agrees with what I want.
by nonunonuu January 12, 2021
Get the Pick Me BFmug. by aaronmckayfriend June 11, 2025
Get the cheese pickingmug. “Sarah is such a pick me.”
“How?”
“She said ‘women belong in the kitchen’ so her crush would like her!”
“How?”
“She said ‘women belong in the kitchen’ so her crush would like her!”
by tallmaninfedorawalkingdog July 1, 2024
Get the Pick Memug. A femcel term meaning a normal, rational and usually attractive woman, who is not a salty generalising misandrist.
It is a coping term that femcels love using because nobody wants to date them for their horrible behavior (i.e., Nobody picks them.)
It is a coping term that femcels love using because nobody wants to date them for their horrible behavior (i.e., Nobody picks them.)
Femcel: All men are bad, and I hate all men because none of them want to date me.
Pick me girl: That's not a nice thing to say, stop generalising all men.
Femcel: OMG you are putting women down, you are such a pick-me girl!!!
Pick me girl: That's not a nice thing to say, stop generalising all men.
Femcel: OMG you are putting women down, you are such a pick-me girl!!!
by Washington's Spoon February 6, 2025
Get the Pick me girlmug.