When a girl does something for male validation. It can be bringing down others (girls in this situation), changing the way they act only when around boys (or changing their whole self just to please boys) and agreeing on sexist things they say towards women.
... said she belongs to the kitchen, she's such a Pick Me.
... said I wear wayy too much makeup and that's why boys don't like me. She's such a Pick Me!
... said I wear wayy too much makeup and that's why boys don't like me. She's such a Pick Me!
by anonymous March 29, 2021
Get the Pick Memug. A grouping of plastic, floral items used in crafting; usually purchased in craft or dollar stores. As in, "you tear apart this pick, and use it's parts to make this wreath."
Youtuber crafters tear apart "picks" they purchase from crafting or dollar stores, to use in their creations. They say in their videos, "I found this great "pick" at dollartree." I found many examples on YouTube, and websites selling plastic floral picks with pinecones, leaves, flowers, and other floral items. But the YouTube "crafters" simply refer to all as "picks."
by ChiefBeachBum September 6, 2019
Get the Pickmug. Alice: You ready to go out to the mall?
Jess: Sure, one sec, just gotta do a little pick and roll ;)
Jess: Sure, one sec, just gotta do a little pick and roll ;)
by 20_20_20_20 February 25, 2021
Get the pick and rollmug. by elana gillbert September 14, 2021
Get the pick me elephantmug. Person 1: I was swiping on Tinder and this guy had me look up a strange phrase I had never heard of before.
Person 2: Sounds like a Pick Down Artist. What did you do?
Person 1: Unique enough and he's decent looking. Swipe right
Person 2: Good call
Person 2: Sounds like a Pick Down Artist. What did you do?
Person 1: Unique enough and he's decent looking. Swipe right
Person 2: Good call
by ab2406 October 16, 2020
Get the Pick Down Artistmug. A pick me (sometimes spelled as pick-me or pickme) is someone who puts down members of their own identity group for validation from others. Commonly used to refer to women (pick me girls), but can also be seen in others. Pick-me men also tend to be performative males, often pretending to relate to women's problems (most commonly in cis men). They often play into stereotypes, disregarding what the people around them are actually like
Pick me's can also be seen putting down members of their own ethnicity, sexuality, religion, etc (i.e: a trans person saying non-binary people are weird despite non-binary being under the trans umbrella)
Pick me's can also be seen putting down members of their own ethnicity, sexuality, religion, etc (i.e: a trans person saying non-binary people are weird despite non-binary being under the trans umbrella)
Girl 1: "Jane is such a pick-me."
Girl 2: "I know right??? She's always like "I'm one of the boys, I could never do make-up or drink something fruity" it's so annoying"
Girl 2: "I know right??? She's always like "I'm one of the boys, I could never do make-up or drink something fruity" it's so annoying"
by f0reverxternally October 21, 2025
Get the pick-memug. 