A guy who uses self depreciation in a manipulative way so a girl will date him. They will say bad things about themselves to try to get the girl to oppose what they’ve said.
Pick me guy: hey 🥺
Girl: hi
Pick me guy: you’re so pretty! You probably won’t like me though I’m so ugly
Girl: no, you’re not ugly! I’m sure someone likes you
Pick me boy: really? Do you think I’m cute!
Girl: I don’t really know you, but I’m sure you’re really sweet
Pick me boy: I knew it, you hate me. It’s ok, you can leave. I’m used to it 🥺

Pick me boy: you left me on read lol
Pick me boy: showering without you :(
Pick me boy: u lefts me in read again lol 🥺
by Shelmet101 February 28, 2021
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The male equivalent of a pick me, another definition is a pick he

Avoid these people at all costs, they use emotional manipulation and guilt tripping to get their way, and obsessed over how they aren't like other guys.
Example of how pick me boys interact with girls:
boy: hi🥺
Girl: hello
Boy: i know you probably wont want to since i am so ugly, but would you want to date me? I am not like other guys 🥺
Girl: no i have a boyfriend
Boy: i understand, im just too ugly, all girls are the same
Girl: ...
Boy: i see you left me on read, nice guys never get picked...
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Boys that use "🥺😞😣" etc. or simply bash on themselves to try and make u feel bad about them, will occasionally gaslight u as well

just run from the pick me boys, run fast
pick me boys can be defined and spotted with

ex: “no one will ever like me 😔"
ex: "I won’t bother u again”
ex: “it’s okay im used to rejection”
ex: “without me?🥺😏”
by big_gorillagripc00chie February 21, 2021
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A pick me boy is the male equivalent of a pick me girl. These are types of guys that emotionally manipulate and gaslight girls by using self deprecating language in the hopes of the girl contradicting them. They will often mention how ugly they are and wait for the girl to disagree. If the girl disagrees then they will take that a sign the girl is into them and will be overly pushy my confessing their attraction or asking them out. If the girl rejects them they will become angry and say how nice guys always finish last and all girls are the same.


Example of how a pick me boy conversation would go. (PMB AND GIRL PAIRED TOGETHER IN GROUP PROJECT)
PMB= Hey 🥺 sorry you had to pair with me 🥺🥺 you wouldn’t otherwise. I’m so ugly 😥
Girl= it’s fine, your not ugly
PMB= really. 🥺🥺 your so nice. Notice how I complimented your personality and not your body. Because I respect women.

Girl=thanks I guess..
PMB= do you wanna go out with me?
Girl= um no thanks I have a boyfriend
PMB= what! This whole time you spoke to me like a normal human you had a boyfriend! All women are the same. Females just don’t like nice guys 🥺🥺🥺
by Ahuman564 January 19, 2022
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a pick me boy is a dude who wants a gurl to "pick him" by saying certain words to manipulate and annoy a girl. No one likes a pick me boy, don't me a pick me boy.
pick me boy: you're so pretty and amazing.. I don't even know why you're talking to me 🥺
normal gurl: aww don't say that! You're my friend!
pick me boy: we're just friends? I knew it, why would someone so amazing like you date me... I'm just a nobody 😢
normal gurl: hmm I thought we were friends, what's up with this whole thing?
pick me boy: I'm not good enough for you or anyone.. I wouldn't even wanna date me.. *cries*
normal gurl: ...
pick me boy: 😤😤😤 *stomps and be sad, then returns to chase the gurl*
by forest grump March 22, 2022
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A boy craving for too much attention. Pick me boys will usually be the most annoying guys ever, because they will say random things at the most random times. Some pick me boys are adorable depending on how pick me they act. its best not to get a pick me boy especially if you're a vulnerable person, some of them only want to be with you for the attention, but if you like to be constantly asked multiple random questions for no reason at all, get you a pick me boy.
#1boy: " bro im ugly af"

#2Girl/boy: " no your not"

#1boy: " yes i am"

This is what you call pick me boy energy.
by Yeah, that's my name June 21, 2021
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Short skinny boys with curly hair and who needs a girlfriend at all times
by Xandman7 February 9, 2022
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