A pick me (sometimes spelled as pick-me or pickme) is someone who puts down members of their own identity group for validation from others. Commonly used to refer to women (pick me girls), but can also be seen in others. Pick-me men also tend to be performative males, often pretending to relate to women's problems (most commonly in cis men). They often play into stereotypes, disregarding what the people around them are actually like
Pick me's can also be seen putting down members of their own ethnicity, sexuality, religion, etc (i.e: a trans person saying non-binary people are weird despite non-binary being under the trans umbrella)
Pick me's can also be seen putting down members of their own ethnicity, sexuality, religion, etc (i.e: a trans person saying non-binary people are weird despite non-binary being under the trans umbrella)
Girl 1: "Jane is such a pick-me."
Girl 2: "I know right??? She's always like "I'm one of the boys, I could never do make-up or drink something fruity" it's so annoying"
Girl 2: "I know right??? She's always like "I'm one of the boys, I could never do make-up or drink something fruity" it's so annoying"
by f0reverxternally October 21, 2025
Get the pick-memug. Ella: You guys ready for Fire Day?
James: What's Fire Day? Pitch me
Ella: We jump through a ring of fire, play fire games, have an eternal fire burning all day... c'mon it'll be fire
James: What's Fire Day? Pitch me
Ella: We jump through a ring of fire, play fire games, have an eternal fire burning all day... c'mon it'll be fire
by schmella September 22, 2023
Get the pitch memug. by Mamamiaherwegoagain July 22, 2019
Get the Head me downmug. by iluvthenet March 17, 2017
Get the me crayonsmug. by JOHN CENAAAAAAAAAAA April 6, 2017
Get the you calling me a liermug. by Lady Pacman December 9, 2008
Get the try me shirtmug. 