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Being a backronym of AADC (the title of an Indonesian movie), "approach-avoidance defensive conflict" refers to the psychological struggle where a single goal has both positive and negative aspects, causing a person to be both drawn to and repelled by it. This internal tension leads to stress and indecision as the individual weighs the pros and cons, and the conflict often results in periods of back-and-forth thinking. Examples include wanting a promotion but dreading the longer hours, or wanting a vacation but being discouraged by the high cost.
She faced an approach-avoidance defensive conflict when she considered accepting the job offer; the salary was great, but the thought of a longer commute made her hesitate.
by Emotional Cruiser October 25, 2025
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My approach

It isn't going to change. You're doimg this out of spite and I'm not going to let you off the hook for nothing. Again, I don't actually care about the morality of it at this point. If doing something immoral prevent you from "training" me. I'm not changing my behavior.
Hym "I'm not changing my approach. This or the child murder. Choose."
by Hym Iam April 7, 2024
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Missed Approach

When the dick slips out during sex.
by Flickdawristohhhh March 18, 2017
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Gung-ho Approach

When an individual is unable to focus on one thing and wants to do/prioritise many things.
By doing so they fail to achieve anything
Karim's gung-ho approach is not helping us develop this product
by ipa March 7, 2019
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Cold Approach

Walking up to random girl at the bar and Chettying her up
Yooo are we ripping Cold Approaches tonight?!?!

Obviously
by ChettyTok March 25, 2025
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The IG approach

it is a common gaming term.
You are chased by monsters and you dig down, cover yourself with dirt and wait til the morning comes or someone saves your ass
by ErectusDeformus April 2, 2017
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Mount Vernon Approach

A.k.a: "The Mt. Vernon method"
An old strategy for cleaning and decluttering...the Mount Vernon Method. Originating from the Washington Estate: Mt. Vernon
The Mount Vernon Approach was used at George Washington's estate, the method involves a one-room-at-a-time approach, starting at the door and moving clockwise around the room, cleaning and organizing one piece of furniture before moving on to the next. The advantage of this method is pacing yourself, and having clear goals that can be accomplished one by one.

n. "I learned to use the Mt. Vernon approach from my mother." --E.M.

v. "Just Mt. Vernon it."
by EmaliaRyn October 16, 2013
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