When you like women, nonbinary people, and attention from men.
Some women: Man I hate experiencing Bi comp-het

Other person: What's Bi Comp-het

Some women: I like women, nonbinary people, and attention from men.

Other person: I think that's normal comp-het and you haven't accepted you're a lesbian.

Some women: stfu Jerry
by Zuckmai_dek April 18, 2021
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wasting too much of your life trying to force heterosexuality only to accept yourself for who you are and embrace your sexuality in the end.
"I spent the first 20 years of my life suffering from het-lag but now I'm free"

Het-lag affects 1 out of 30 adults under the age of 35 in the US due to fear of being accepted.
by tatsamie September 30, 2020
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The period of time before a queer person realises they're queer. Suffering from compulsory heterosexuality is a form of het lag.
I didn't realise I was gay until high school, I had such het lag
by Idisch August 2, 2023
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The act of historians intentionally reframing historically queer relationships as platonic friendships in order to 'wash' queer identity from history.
"I was shocked to learn that the two English artist bros who lived together for 50 years as confirmed bachelors, who never married, who shared a bed because their bromance was so strong, who kept up daily written correspondence their entire lives turned out to just be roommates! Thanks, Het-Washing for sanitizing my view of history!

See also: "Oh My God They Were Roommates Vine"
by S. Strides November 17, 2022
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het cet·er·a
/het ˈsedərə/

adverb: hetcetera
1. used at the end of a list to indicate that further, heterosexual shenanigans are included.
"They have been busy with the gender reveal party, live laugh loving, het cetera."
by nerdularnerdence April 18, 2020
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Used when you're in agreement with someone during a topic of discussion.
Mostly used by informal Afrikaans speakers
Person 1:Drank koop vinaand my ou?
Person 2:Awe,ek het jou bou
by DatCKBrah July 15, 2022
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The most holy creature in the world. It's the most bossest sandwich that ever existed in the history of humankind.
The Veggie Patty is the biggest enemy of Het Opperbazenbrood
by #The#Original#Don November 20, 2016
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