Introverted, intuitive, feeling, & judging.
Very sweet people with a lot to offer.
Amazing listeners and observers.
Private and independent.
Calm and collected people pleasers.
They’
re not what half of these definitions say about narcissism and egoistic bragging. Sure they are rare but they are humble and the people who claim to be an INFJ but shove it in other peoples faces are most likely not actual INFJs.
True INFJs do not
care or even like the fact that they are considered rare and they would never brag. They tend to feel alone and
lost rather than special and superior.
They are loving, selfless, empathetic, gentle beings who do nothing but give to others and
try to help everyone as
best as they can. They’
re hearts are huge and they are always ready to lend a hand to those who need help.
They are human though and aren’t all sunshine and rainbows 24/7. They have a dark side and have the ability to be
mean but it’s not in their nature. Push them hard enough they might snap and show you just how
cold and cruel they can be. It takes a lot to
get them to that point though.