1. A man who takes great care with his clothing and general appearance, especially one who is nonchalant in demeanor and (historically) tries to develop aristocratic hobbies, language, and honorable ideals. (See also fop)
2. A flamboyant or effeminate male, regardless of sexual orientation. (See also
metrosexual and
flamer)
3. Outstanding in its particular class; splendid. (Often used sarcastically)
4. A charming androgynous person of either gender. (See also gender
bender)
A proper dandy dresses with dignity, unlike fops who are foolish and vain.
Ted: "Gosh, that guy is such a dandy."
Sue: "Well, flamboyance works for him."
Kate: "Are you okay? I know I keep asking..."
Rob: "Yeah, I'm just dandy."
Jane: "Wow, look at that dandy over there!"
Sal: "Do you think it's a boy, or a
girl?"
Jane: "Does it really matter? I thought you were bi."