The phenomenon when you take your ear buds out of your pocket and they mysteriously, spontaneously, come out in knots. In a way that it would take you effort to do it on your own.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.