the most minimal form of an invitation, but not quite reaching the level of an unvite. used to make an offer, while indicating that ones
presence is not mutally desired. frequently used by a couple to a
potential third wheel. commonly phrased by using "if you want."
me: kim and i are
going to the
bar around ten. you can come too, if you want.
you: dude, that was such an undervite.