When a woman lacks enthusiasm while giving a blow job, causing the man to stop the blow job, finish into his hand, and toss the cum into the woman's face in shame, yelling "SHAME CUM." This forever ruins the woman's reputation.
Man: "At least try to get into it!"
Woman: sigh...
Man: *removes penis from woman's mouth, jerks off into hand*
Woman: "What are you doing?"
Man: "SHAME CUM!" *tossing semen into woman's face*
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.