Term added by drag queen and venezuelan performer "andrógena", most known as "androx" in the performing world. It refers to a gay man, mostly the ones with twink appearance, white-ish, pretentious, problematic, effeminate and skinny but not skinny legends, just skinny as in physical condition.
—I didn't know your co-worker was gay.
—How come not? He's a rosquita dulce, can't you see it?
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”