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Racelighting 

Racelighting refers to the process whereby People of Color question their own thoughts and actions due to systematically delivered racialized messages that make them second guess their own lived experiences with racism.

The term was developed by professors Luke Wood and Frank Harris III to represent a unique type of gaslighting experienced in the daily, normalized realities of Black, Indigenous, and People of Color.

When racelighted, People of Color may begin to question their interpretation of reality and begin to wonder if they are being overly sensitive. Racelighting is most commonly seen when Black and other People of Color question being mistreated. The perpetrators’ passionate delivery of innocence and claims of the victim’s misinterpretation can be incredibly convincing.

A common example of this is when a Black student is told, with a sense of surprise, that they are “actually smart.” If this microaggression is brought to the attention of the person who said it, their most common response is to state, with extreme conviction, that the student “misunderstood,” “took their comments out of context,” or is “being too sensitive.” The level of conviction can lead to the student considering if they actually created the problem in this interaction rather than the person who caused the infraction.
You need to tell them to stop racelighting you, it's not you, it's them!

I was just racelighted in that meeting, I told them they were mistreating me and their response was to say that I'm taking their comments out of context. That's not true!

We have culture of racelighting in our organization, where we feel like we are losing our own minds and told we are misinterpreting our mistreatment.
Racelighting by Ariel William Moore February 14, 2021
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Raveling Davelor 

1.To take ones self out of a harmful or socially threatening situation and into a more gay state. Both definitions of gay apply here.

2. To steal from the more helpless small children, of their ride on toys, be it tricycles, small fire engines, little red wagons, etc.
Oh jeez, hes at it again, here comes the raveling davelor.

Hey look over there!! There goes a raveling davelor down the street!
An extremely dumb person. No, not just a dumb person but the dumbest person you will ever meet. Like just a complete and utter dumbass.
Jake: Yo, that girl is soo dumb she doesnt even realise shes not hot and has tiny tits.

Bob: Ya shes a total Racheli
Racheli by Instine Fertumeir March 2, 2009

rachel-ing 

to act like rachel berry from the tv series glee, i.e, a bitch who is talented, but dresses horribly. underneath this lies a pretty girl who is talented and could be nice if she stopped acting like a controlling psychopath.
that outfit shows symptoms of rachel-ing... i think i vomited a bit from thinking about it. and then again when i saw it.
rachel-ing by axchangelove October 24, 2010

Rachaeling

Showing extreme emotions for a woman who will probably cheat on you. (Pillow talking, buying gifts, texting paragraphs, blowing up her phone) The term comes from a joke about a husband coming home from work early and catches his wife (Rachael) cheating on him. He walks in the bedroom, catches her cheating and yells "RACHAEL! HOW COULD YOU!?" ... Also a person who Rachael's usually "tricks" on the woman, like a "John" does to a prostitute. Coincidentally, the famous TV Chef "Rachael Ray" has a husband named JOHN. The term originated in North Omaha, Nebraska.
chuck: "I'm not gonna lie bro, I was drunk last night and started rachaeling to my baby momma hard."
Virgil: " you gotta chill out with that goofy ass shit, you acting like a John! You know that hoe ain't loyal."
Rachaeling by Dr. Rooney January 26, 2020

Rachelnator 

A person with the relation to sharks, usually of the factor in amazingness. The shark is usually known as Sherman, and the "Rachelnator" has a crazy useful left foot.
You wanna go find Otis? RACHELNATOR!
Rachelnator by Raju0081 April 6, 2011

rasseling 

I joined rasseling class in high school.
rasseling by LisaP70 February 14, 2018