Talking shit about one person to another person for personal gain.
Brah, I know you were pillow talking with that girl about me just so you could fuck with her.
by LilSwipe July 7, 2017
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When a man/woman shares information to another man/woman about a completely different person or persons that they have no business sharing but do so because of the closeness of atmosphere created after sex. An act frowned upon if it's a man running his mouth to woman he's laying with, but not necessarily frowned upon if it's a woman running her mouth to the man.
Yo I ain't got a problem with how many bitches he be fucking at the gig but that niqqa be pillow talking too much then these bitches be havin' other niqqa business spreadin thru the workplace cuz they be talking to dem bitches they bang wit, and them other bitches be pillow talkin' with the niqqas they be fuckin... now everybody know everybody business.
by That Niqqa 4Real February 15, 2022
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Talking about another man to a woman so you have sex with her
by No Kapp December 8, 2020
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When a female or male finesse's someone out of there clothes by talking shit about their friends or family.
Ex 1:

Nigga 1: Aye you heard what Shaun said about you to ole shorty?
Nigga 2: Yeah i don't rock with bruh no more. he just a pillow talking ass fuckboy
by blasian shawty January 29, 2015
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Contrary to the top definition, Pillow Talk actually has two connotations.

The first connotation is the most thought of one. It's intimate talk with your romantic partner in bed, either before or after sex (but usually after). It is usually at this moment where all personal thoughts, desires and troubles are revealed in a candid tone. Those thoughts you've locked away during daytime are now front and center, completely transparent to your partner. Pillow talk can really be anything, it can be goofy or serious, but the main distinction is that everything spoken is 100% candid and true to themselves. No pretense, just you being you.

The second connotation is less restrictive and applies more generally. Here, Pillow Talk is referring to the intimate deep conversations between two or more people within a platonic relationship (e.g. friend, colleague). It often takes place in a location that stimulates bonding and conversation. For example, a literal sleepover with your friends can spur pillow talk, or a night out at a pub with your bros. Again, same meaning applies here. The conversations are usually very candid and lasts for hours, no pretense whatsoever.

Overall, pillow talk is a crucial component in relationships and its effect can be very therapeutic.
Example 1(A): During pillow talk, Amy revealed her troubled past with her abusive alcoholic father. His boyfriend consoled her and she felt a lot better.
Example 1(B): See any episode of two and a half men

Example 2: Jake and his buddies had a sleepover and they had a long pillow talk about anxiety and depression and seeked each other's help/advice.
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Pillow Talk takes place in bed, usually after sex.

Couples usually talk about what’s on their mind during pillow talk. It’s oftentimes an easy conversation about the events of the day or week, in a safe and comfortable space. Afterwards, you fall asleep.

Pillow Talk is a good thing.
Dear Diary,

Raul told me some of his concerns at work during pillow talk last night. I think he feels better about everything.
by ForestFairy January 30, 2020
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n. The conversation that happens after making out/sex. It's infinitely better than normal conversation because there's touching involved.
During pillow talk I asked him about his family.
by The Grammar Nazi June 12, 2002
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