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Perpetrator Mentality 

A person with a Perpetrator Mentality has the mindset that it isn't "an issue" if they cause harm to other people. They believe "the issue" is the natural reaction to the harm they cause, such as that of the victim, or anyone who calls them out.

Many perpetrators refuse to be accountable for their actions, so they create distractions. Perpetrators have made "victim" a dirty word. A victim is simply a person who was harmed, and they don't "choose" whether or not they are harmed. The perp does that.

Those with a Perpetrator Mentality encourage shame and blame towards their victims, and toward anyone who reports them to authorities (The Rat). These perps won't admit that they have poor communication skills. They believe they can gain power by controling other people, when true power lies in the ability to control their own self.
"Gary says it isn't his fault or his problem that I'm depressed and lost my confidence, when he starved me of physical and emotional affection, while secretly bedding 3 of my friends. Gary has Perpetrator Mentality."

A) "My roommate blames me because someone at his party stole my tip money. He said only an idiot hides cash in their bedroom closet."

B) " Your roommate has perpetrator mentality. His friends should not have been allowed in your bedroom, especially with you at work."

perpetrate; perpetrator 

To front. To fake it 'til you make it.
Check out that nigga perpetrating like he got some kaish.

purple perpetrator

I introduced her mouth to my purple perpetrator
purple perpetrator by wool dog February 23, 2011

perpetrate; perpetrator 

To inappropriately and unjustifiably wrong another, particularly -but not necessarily- knowingly or maliciously.
Man, that's the second time this month my paycheck was wrong; they need to quit perpetrating!

Stockholm perpetrator

Stockholm perpetrator is based on the definition of Stockholm syndrome, but it could be used in the context of for example a woman goes on a date with a Man, but she is worried that when she goes back to her apartment or her house or his living situation, she might be in trapped into a situation where she can’t escape the property additionally, another definition is with online dating you might go through a hook up with your sexual interest, you had over to their premises and it’s the last place you were last seen again because you were stuck with a Stockholm perpetrator
She went on a date with a guy last night, and she went back to his apartment after the date that was the last time she was seen her friend had a feeling that her friend was in trapped by a Stockholm perpetrator she was not able to find her friend days later despite calling her messaging her or getting in contact with her and she found it suspicious the last time she was hanging out with her friend was just before she was hanging out with the Stockholm perpetrator in the venue on a night out before she disappeared with him

The perpetual perpetrator (a psychosomatic suspect with a distressed stutter). 

What I call homo-sapiens whoa re addicted to abscesses.
Person 1: Are you addicted to abscesses?
Person 2: Yes.
Person 1: The perpetual perpetrator (a psychosomatic suspect with a distressed stutter).