When in a healthy, loving relationship, you and your spouse agree that you can have sexual relations with a person outside your relationship while still maintaining your deep and abiding love for one another.
Every few years, I go to Tijuana and indulge in a Sodd Tafran to relax, recharge, and reset
Very mild adjective, roughly the same obscenity level as "darned" or "bloody". For some obscure reason, Americans (who use the word "sodding" to mean putting turf (or sod) down in your garden) have got the impression that it is of about the same obscenity level as "f***ing" whereas it is not uncommon to hear your elderly aunt, who wouldn't dream of saying "shit", use it.
Blimey, it's sodding coldtoday - or - has anyone seen my sodding keys?