Doing date activities with a friend of the opposite sex to avoid actually having to date someone.
To the unaware third party observer the pair looks like they are together.
Similar to "friendzone" but more positive because neither party wants a romantic or sexual relationship.
"I heard you and Jane went to a nice dinner and a concert together, are you twodating?"
"No, she is just a cool girl to hangout with so we are just nondating"
1. non-committal meetup between hypothetically single people, during non-date-night times
2. coffee, lunch, after dinner drinks, hanging out after class, chillaxin
3. meeting up after the appropriate amount of pre-screening online flirting or vaguely sexy textversations
4. pre-cursor to a hookup, not to be confused with a booty call
Irina kept texting Francis to see about grabbing drinks after work some time, but they both kept flaking out on the nondate
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. PenguinBooks,1992. p. 38)