The hangers-on around a rugby club. Usually ex-players who have an inflated opinion of their own sporting prowess in days gone by. Also known as a bufty.
We're hosting an end of seasondinner: players, bufty's, alacado's, wags and hags welcome.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.