2 definitions by ghetto-broad
With regards success with women, and as opposed to outer game, your inner game is the opinion you have of yourself (your self esteem) and the pursuits in life that make you interesting and successful. This all contributes to your self confidence. A confident person is more likely to score with women.
A strong outer game can for a short while give an impression of confidence and help to attract women. However, without a strong inner game, it may be difficult to retain women you have attracted since they will soon realise that you have little going on in your life that would want to make them stick around.
The inner game can be worked on and improved as much as the outer game, and indeed the two concepts are higly linked to one another. A strong inner game will help with the outer game when it comes to general banter with a woman since you will have plenty of things going on in your life to talk about!
A strong outer game can for a short while give an impression of confidence and help to attract women. However, without a strong inner game, it may be difficult to retain women you have attracted since they will soon realise that you have little going on in your life that would want to make them stick around.
The inner game can be worked on and improved as much as the outer game, and indeed the two concepts are higly linked to one another. A strong inner game will help with the outer game when it comes to general banter with a woman since you will have plenty of things going on in your life to talk about!
Example of someone who has poor inner game:
Woman: ...that was a funny joke, so what do you do?
You: Er, I'm an accountant.
Woman: Ok. So do you have any hobbies?
You: I like going out with my mates, watching movies and stuff.
Woman: (yawn)
Example of someone who has strong inner game:
Woman: ...that was a funny joke, so what do you do?
You: I'm an accountant. I'm working in New York next week with a big client, it's usually a blast since we spend a lot of time eating at nice restaurants and being taken out for corporate drinks.
Woman: Wow. So do you have any hobbies?
You: I'm a keen rock climber actually. Next month I'm spending the weekend sport climbing in the south of France. I love it there.
Woman: That's amazing! I would love to do something like that...
Woman: ...that was a funny joke, so what do you do?
You: Er, I'm an accountant.
Woman: Ok. So do you have any hobbies?
You: I like going out with my mates, watching movies and stuff.
Woman: (yawn)
Example of someone who has strong inner game:
Woman: ...that was a funny joke, so what do you do?
You: I'm an accountant. I'm working in New York next week with a big client, it's usually a blast since we spend a lot of time eating at nice restaurants and being taken out for corporate drinks.
Woman: Wow. So do you have any hobbies?
You: I'm a keen rock climber actually. Next month I'm spending the weekend sport climbing in the south of France. I love it there.
Woman: That's amazing! I would love to do something like that...
by ghetto-broad October 9, 2007
by ghetto-broad October 9, 2007