when someone takes charge of a situation and or take the lead in a activity.
or when one plays by their own rules.
Jack is winning at poker "Jacks running the show tonight"
Everyone disagrees with Marshall's decisions, "Shut up i am running the show now"
tone police is identified when a person preferably a male with a large structure tries to intimidate a person or group of people with his/her large biceps into order to take control of a situation.
marshi "look at fogz, tone police trying to intimidate us to back off while he bets large on his hand at poker"