Someone who tries to make everything inflammatory by encouraging escalation of actions, while pretending to be concerned about de-escalation, resolution, compromise, and intervention, or anything else that makes him/her look like a good person among bad people.
The girl's family knew she had always been an instigator, the kind of person who said fuck you to neighbors and flipped them off by coming in their town like she owned it, with the intervention programs she supported to cover her own actions, or involvement in the questionable actions of others, and make her look like a better/stronger person than she actually was.
by Solid Mantis March 31, 2021
The instigator would rather fuck with somebody else's life or talk shit about it than tend to their own (if there was one to tend to, if it wasn't a facade of a life to show everyone).
by Solid Mantis December 03, 2020
Someone that encourages escalation of actions, then pretends to be concerned about resolution, compromise, justice, intervention, and other shit like that once something bad does actually happen, they want everybody to love them all of sudden, no matter what they did or who they did or were involved in doing it to (a 7 year old kid, for example).
The girl's family knew she was always an instigator who thought it was funny to escalate bad things to happen, then pretend to be concerned about finding resolution, compromise, intervention, or peace (Hitler also claimed to be concerned about seeking peace). Unlike some people seemed to, they didn't think she was scary to be around, they thought she was more mouthy than anything else.
by Solid Mantis March 31, 2021
The instigator tried to rally people about a bullshit cause so they wouldn't take time to actually think about any of it.
by Solid Mantis April 24, 2020
Someone who outdoors a kiss ass at what a kiss ass is known for, to the point it isn't called kissing ass with an instigator, its called pleasing or even claims of slavery by the instigator against the other person.
The one major difference between a kiss ass and an instigator is a kiss ass doesn't claim to be anybody's slave, despite doing things just as dehumanizing for other people. An instigator always says they do what they're doing to please other people, but thinks other people are the kiss asses, when really its all similar behavior.
by Solid Mantis December 01, 2019
by Solid Mantis July 31, 2019
Somebody that tries to change everything and everyone in someone's life into something they won't love.
The instigator wasn't going to make the guy love his neighborhood any less by getting buildings wrecked or by getting people kicked out of them.
by Solid Mantis May 16, 2021