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Pulling a Ben 

Sitting with a girl for more than 4 hours attempting to seduce her only to find she has a boyfriend.
'Oh man, I thought this girl was really into me but it turns out i was just pulling a Ben'

Pulling a Ben 

To pull a Ben is to do something which is very headass or to be a headass
*Group chat decides to buy concert tickets together at a Chicago location*

One person in the group buys tickets for themselves and one other person for the Atlanta location instead

Another person in the group chat might say, "Wow they're really pulling a Ben right now"
Pulling a Ben by echopear May 9, 2018

Pulling a Ben Shapiro 

Attempting to enter your partner bone dry, no lube. Drier than a desert.
How did your date go the other night, did you all get laid?

Yeah, but it DID NOT go well. This dude was pulling a Ben Shapiro. Feels like sandpaper down there.

Pulling A Ben 

To hide the true identity of your same sex partner, by giving them a name of the opposite sex as a cover up, which sounds similar or begins with the same letter.
To be pulling a Ben, is to use another name for your partner. Example; to use Ben instead of Karen, or Jessica, instead of James.
Pulling A Ben by deepsecrets June 22, 2010

Pulling a Ben 

When one alerts the police for ridiculously stupid reasons.
Girlfriend: "Sorry, I gotta get off the phone or my brother's gonna kill me.
In Boyfriend's mind: "I should call the police!"

THE NEXT DAY:

Boyfriend's Buddy: "You shouldn't of called the cops, man! You were really pulling a Ben there."
Pulling a Ben by BanditoSlim October 8, 2011

Pulling a Ben 

To “pull a Ben”, is to love (become obsessed with) someone for four years, that you’ve never physically met, and then complain about how it’s hurting you, when you refuse to move on.
Nani: I’ll love you for four years and never let you go, lol
Sunny: you’re totally pulling a Ben

Nani: *commits die*
Pulling a Ben by ItsLevio_SUH August 28, 2019
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Respectfully 

Precedes or follows either a gratuitously disrespectful or honest remark, originated in New York City. Used in similar fashion to "no offense" or "to be honest," interchangeably.
Ya mans is wild buns, respectfully. Respectfully he's washed.

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You met me at a very Chinese time in my life

A moment in time where you feel distinctly Chinese over all other things.
Dante: "I wish I could be Nigerian, but I can't because I'm Chinese. You met me at a very Chinese time in my life."
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Adjective. Used to describe persons who have adjusted or altered their lifestyle for environmental reasons. Crunchy persons tend to be politically strongly left-leaning and may be additionally but not exclusively categorized as vegetarians, vegans, eco-tarians, conservationists, environmentalists, neo-hippies, tree huggers, nature enthusiasts, etc.

Also used to describe establishments where alternative foods and products are sold, i.e. natural food stores.

Modified derivative of granola.
"I need more crunchy guys in my life. I'm so tired of dating preppy metrosexual assholes."

"I'm heading out to the crunchy store to pick up some fair trade chocolate and tea tree oil, do you need anything?"
crunchy by EBC July 11, 2007
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A group of people, typically women, searching through someone’s digital footprint in order to find more information about that person.
Susie wasn’t sure if her new Hinge match was a creep, so she assembled Galantir and they found out he used to post slurs on gaming forums.
Galantir by Ge-sus September 22, 2026
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murderhobo 

In a tabletop game, a murderhobo is a player who murders NPCs indiscriminately. This is normally derogatory, referring to a player who totally ignores quests, dialog, backstory, trade, world building etc.

The term is most common with Dungeons and Dragons, but it can be applied to most RPGs where the player is allowed to kill most quest-giving NPCs and NPC traders. E.g. Elder Scrolls, Fallout, Divinity original sin.
DM: The sad little orphan girl tugs at Steve's trenchcoat to get his attention, and ask for help saving her pet dog from...
Steve: I'd like to roll a strength check against strangling the orphan.
Dave: I call dibs on the dog.
DM: You murderhobos disgust me.
murderhobo by Loup&S September 9, 2021
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