When your mom trips and falls while holding cereal, causing it to spill all over the floor, your dad then proceeds to say, "BEEB!" (Mom's Name is Really Bebe) while your mom says, "PETE!" (Dad's Name) thinking he is going to help her up, he then turns around and screams, "THE CEREAL!" While being upset that it is harmed and not helping your hurt mother off of the hardwood floor. This isn't a nice action.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.